The Golfing Mindset - a golfer must be taught how to manage their thinking so they are able to manage their emotions. In golf, you will be tested mentally and physically; if emotions and negative thinking are in the picture, then the golfer will struggle to trust their talent and enjoy the so-called pressure of tournament play. 2.The Real Game of Golf – Golf is a game of misses & mistakes. Nobody has perfected the game and no one ever will.